Choice

There's no right or wrong in life, its just choices. Is that right?

I don't know how else and what else I should do to please you. Now I finally know getting married is not about the 2 of us, its about the 2 families. I don't know what triggered you to cry in front of all the relatives that night about your son moving out issue.. But I know those tears are real. I know you are sad, you're afraid because all your life you only focus on your son. Your daughter is already a gone case and you put all you hope on your son. Hoping that he will stay with you after he got married and you can see him everyday.

Maybe I'm not a mum yet, I won't know how it felt if things like this happened to me. I'm sure every mum will feel unhappy too, it's gonna take a while to accept, but I think what triggers you is the fact that now your life is left with total emptiness because you don't have many friends, you got no hobby, all your life is just about your son. In other words you took really well care of him. Now that I'll be doing what you have been doing, in a way I'm stealing your son away..

I did feel bad too. But what can I do? I'm not in a very good shape too. Not only did your life changed. My life has changed completely too. Things will NEVER be the same. I'm not saying I've already accepted my new life here, I'm trying my best because I know I had to. I hope you will feel the same too.. Be glad that you are just staying 6 blocks away from your son.. not a few thousand miles...